Life is all about experience.

We had a very impressive and pleasant conversation, in that small room, while the wind was blowing the tree outside of the window like hell.

J told me. Life is all about experience.

Why should we set the boundaries all the time and limit our infinite possibilities?
If we always think, "oh this won't fit"," oh that won't work", how can we actually make everything work?

Human beings tend to surprise themselves all the time. And our potential of producing infinite possibilities is amazingly great. The persistence and determination of execution can give us a big joy and tons of happiness.

He is the first male Gemini I have ever met. Very wise and open-minded.

The great thing is, we are both that kind of person who would feel extremely happy and satisfied with experiencing a big challenge to ourselves and we tend to gain a huge amount of entertainment from it no matter how good or bad the result is.
Challenging itself is brave enough and has been a big step in our life already.

I enjoy surprising myself very very much.

Like he always said, " I don't want to lay on my grave yard and regret 'ooh I should have done this and that', that's pathetic."

I want to write down the inspiration I had from this conversation.

I always thought life was too short since my grandpa died last year.
I kept thinking about alternative-reality and different decision makings.

How many really great people whom can actually touch your heart and make it beat like a drum you can meet in your whole life?
"You are very lucky if you get one." J said, he looked at me straightly into my eyes.

Maybe, the theory of "the one" actually doesn't exist.
Often, the difference is always about how much effort you want to put or how much you want to devote yourself into it to make him/her to become " the one". Meanwhile the timing matters, but it comes the second.

We tend to think, " there will be a better one." The truth is, there might not be a better one in the next corner if you are always wondering whether he/she is the one.

Wasting time on being scared of the risk would be the biggest mistake.

Very soon. Faster than we can imagine. We are all old.

I will remember that.

PS.We discussed a very funny major difference of ways of thinking between men and women when they were coping with the pain.
Most of the women tend to keep talking to their girlfriends and grieving for a long time to try to move on when healed. However, men tend to keep all the feelings at a very superficial level or keep it to themselves, not willing to talk about it and try to move on as fast as possible.
The situation which would happen on a man is, after quickly moving on for maybe 6 months, he would probably fall into a deep emotional depression one day suddenly and couldn't figure out why.
I laughed loudly when I heard him analyzing.

Communication is such a big fun for me. =D